Rituals for Departure

Breakups and divorces are hard and deeply impact our life and the community around us. While we celebrate the beginnings of love and relationships with different ceremonies and anniversaries, we lack rituals that accompany us through the messy process of departing from each other. Rituals for Departure fills this gap, offering tender rituals for those who would like to part ways in meaningful and conscious way.

This ritual is for you if you are looking for...

…a way to close a relationship or marriage at eye level.

…a space in which your pain can be witnessed and acknowledged.

…a way to depart from each other as friends.

What will your ritual consist of?

Each ritual is customized to your needs and desires. We offer a general structure that fits to the theme of the ritual, and will adjust and design specific parts of the ritual so it becomes a unique and personal experience.

Part I: The Story

What is the story of the union that ends? This first part facilitates a common story telling of a shared past. The goal of this part is to become aware of what is left behind.

Part II: The Forum

In the second part all parties get to share what they need to communicate before they are ready to part from each other. This part is highly facilitated to create a safe container for everyone involved.

Part III: The Future

In the last part it is time to part ways. For this part we will create a specific ritualistic act that will allow you to manifest the break of the union.

Why choose a ritual for departure?

Empowered breakups

Breakups are sad, uncomfortable, and difficult. Pushing aside the impact of them can lead to repressed anger and pain. Meeting a breakup openly, however, can empower and transform you in positive ways.

Get support from your community

Most breakups affect more people than just the people splitting up. Inviting friends and family into the process will make the impacts it has on everyone more transparent and help built a support network for you in difficult times.

Find closure

Sometimes it can be hard to understand that a relationship has ended. A Ritual for Departure will help you find closure, and move on.

What will the process up to your ritual look like?

getting to know each other

In the first meeting we will get to know each other, and find out if what we offer matches what you are looking for. You can book your first meeting with us without commitments. So don’t be shy to say hi!

1st draft

After our first conversation we create a draft of how your ritual could look like. We will send you this draft and invite you for a second meeting.

designing your ritual

During the second meeting we discuss the draft and dive into the details of your ritual. We will make adjustments to it, so the ritual matches your needs and desires.

last steps

After the second meeting we finalize the script, and we meet for third meeting. You will get a copy of the script and we figure out the last practical questions for doing your ritual.

DAY OF THE RITUAL

We prepare the ritual for you, and guide you all the way through the experience.

debriefing

After 1-3 weeks we meet again to talk about your experience.

Pricing

DKK 2000 base price

The Intimate Ritual is for those who seek to depart in a private setting, with none or only few witnesses.
We offer rituals in English, Danish, and German.

DKK 7000 base price

The Community Ritual is for those who would like to include their community, and be supported by it.
We offer rituals in English, Danish, and German.

Do you want to find closure and depart from each other in a meaningful way?

Then book a free first meeting now. We’ll happily answer your question and find out how a ritual can support you in this difficult moment.